Frequently
Asked Questions
What happens during a Constellation?
During a
constellation an individual wishing to work on an issue that affects their life
(career, relationships, money, health, etc.) chooses representatives for various
members of his/her family from the circle of participants at the workshop. S/he
positions the chosen representatives spatially in a way that feels right.
By asking
questions, making observations, and repositioning the representatives, the
facilitator and a client come to see the situation in a new way and create a
resolution picture that can enable the client to break his/her identification
with the ancestor's difficult fate that reflects upon their life.
Why Participate?
Constellation
workshops are done for personal, professional, and organizational problems.
You will spend two and a half days in the sacred temple of your family
soul where all flows beyond words in a timeless space carried by living,
pulsating, very real flow of love. You came from this love even if you think you
were a “mistake” or an “accident”. The love and loyalty in family
systems are so strong that they stay alive even after physical bodies dissolve.
Often times it means that we can unconsciously undertake the destiny that is not
ours while limiting our own life experiences to only those that are
“programmed” in our family systems. This defines our relationships with
money, others, and ourselves. It also includes physical and mental disease that
repeats in a family.
By
participating in this workshop you will have a unique opportunity to have a
direct experience of the truth of life and a timeless reality in which it
unfolds. It is through this direct experience that we can know that there must
be another bigger reality. This reality that exists beyond all our human
confusion, all our sad, angry, or at times really traumatic stories the higher
love and higher intelligence keep flowing and unfolding in one big creative act.
As you
experience this we guarantee, that you will never be able to look at life the
same way.
One person
at a time, one family at a time, - we all as humanity are moving towards the
knowingness about who we truly are and our unlimited potential.
How do Representatives “know” what
they know?
A remarkable
thing happens when one sets up a representative for family members or ancestors.
The representative begins to sense things on all levels of awareness, physical,
emotional and mental, that are similar to what this family member may have felt.
Some representatives suddenly become aware of situations and events that
happened in the life of the family member. It is as though they have become
antennae, receiving information from a “family soul” that is mysteriously
present in the room. This phenomenon of “knowing” without having any
information is explained by the theory of “morphogenic fields” that act as a
storage of all information. (Google Rupert Sheldrake - The Morphogenetic
Universe).
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Is Constellation similar to Psychodrama
Therapy?
No, this is
a different process based on different principles. In constellation work we are
able to look at entire cultural matrix (the culture an individual came from) as
well as achieve deep healing of trans-generational trauma reaching as far as 7 or
even more generations before us.
What do I achieve during a
Constellation?
The
unresolved trauma, cultural conditioning, and genetic programming define the
happiness and health of our children and shape out our individual destinies.
On the top
of healing our own problem/challenge by doing a constellation session we achieve
healing of at least 7 generations before us and 7 generations to come after us. This is
truly a life changing, profound, enlightening, and very healing experience that
goes very deep, far beyond our personal life experiences and childhood trauma
that are attempted to be addressed through regular psychotherapy.
Whether you
are an active participant or a participant, or even a guest during this workshop
you will receive at least 8 to 10 healing sessions on you and your family
system.
Are Representatives “playing
roles”?
No,
Representatives are not ” role playing” some script as it might look. It is
important that those persons serving as representatives get "out of their
heads" and "into their bodies" while they allow themselves to
enter a realm of direct experiences.
Can anyone be a Representative?
Absolutely.
As long as you can see and feel you can be a representative. No training or
previous experience is required; anyone can do it. This workshop is also a great
intuition training tool as well as learning to live in the “now” tool.
Can
anyone be a Facilitator?
With
proper training and credential - yes. As natural and easy as this work might
appear to you as you stand in a constellation you would not want to
"play" with your ancestral field or take this work lightly. On the top
of present entanglements that exist in your family system the last thing you
want - is to create more.
Is one Constellation enough to resolve
and Issue?
Normally
yes. For complex entangled issues follow up constellations could be recommended.
We advise you to monitor your own progress. It is not recommended to do another
constellation on the same issue sooner then 3 months unless we work on another
parent’s side of your family of origin.
Does the Person who has the Issue have
to come to a Constellation?
If a child
is under 16 a concerned parent can have a constellation done for them. The child
does not need to be present during the constellation.
If a child
or a family member is over 16 they need to be present in person or give a
written permission to have a constellation done for them.
How can I be sure my
Privacy is
respected?
All workshop content and
information revealed during sessions is strictly confidential, and all
participants are bound by Confidentiality Agreement.
Please rest assured that neither you nor any of you family members would ever be
disrespected or judged in any way.
We also honor family
secrets, and find indirect way of working with them if needed.