You Came from Good People

You came from all these people. You came into this world because of their love. Their love flows inside of you as does their strength. 

However, in your blood you also carry their feelings, thoughts, unhealed trauma, and secrets that they might have taken to the grave. Energy cannot be destroyed or created. It means that these feelings, thoughts and traumas are running in you in a form of subconscious programs that form your life perceptions and behaviors.  

If you do not do the “cleanup” of these programs you are leaving the job to your children. 

The good news is, that since you are reading this now it might be your time to start.  

                   Welcome to the Family Constellation work, this magical and transformational walk with your Family Soul towards reclaiming your life and your freedom! 

Recover Your Identity and Start Living Your Life 

How to go Beyond your Genetic/Family Programming?

You might be thinking you live your life fully now. Think again…do you ever feel that no matter how much you wrestle with an issue nothing seems to change? Recurring patterns echo in your personal and professional relationships. What about these stubborn, recurring patterns that keep showing up in our relationships with money, others, and with ourselves? No matter how much “positive thinking” we do on them they keep spinning and spinning, and coming back…

Cross-generational entanglements explain why some tragedies, diseases, or patterns are repeated again and again in each generation.

If you are ready to start living your life, beyond your family “programs” that keep running at the back of your subconscious mind, - come and join us for two and a half days of unforgettable and life changing experience. Come and experience how constellations can resolve conflicts, uncover and heal old stubborn issues, and transform repetitive patterns that seem to surface in our lives.  

Why no Matter how hard we try to change we keep running the Same Patterns and encounter the Same Problems?  

Constellations are based on the idea that instead of originating in an individual‘s life’s history, dysfunction and suffering often relate to painful events in the family‘s past. We often achieve only so much in our healing because the dysfunctional energies circulating in our families can interfere. It has been estimated that approximately 76% of the issues we face may have a systemic factor in their origin. We all have a family from which we descend and to which we are connected by unbreakable bonds. The family system affects our perception and actions, our relationships, our health and our path in life. It also entangles us on a deep unconscious level to the pain and the fate of our ancestors. An unconscious love and loyalty to our family system can cause us to carry on the fate, unspoken secrets, hurts, and unresolved traumas of previous generations. If not resolved, these issues   entangle our children, our grandchildren, and us until cleared. They are at the root of many of our reoccurring issues of both physical and emotional nature as well as perpetual cycles of disconnection in families.

Why Past is Important?

Events such as the premature death of a parent or sibling, the exclusion of a family member, a murder of or by a family member, or victimization of others by a family member can all lead to "entanglements" which disturb one's life and relationships. Severe consequences may result, such as feelings of isolation, depression, mental and physical illness, accidents, financial or relationship issues and even suicidal thoughts or attempts.

At any point in a family system a disconnection or separation creates an energy blockage that does not allow the energy to flow freely from one generation to the next.  The family constellation not only allows the disconnection to become visible, but also it is a vehicle through which the reconnection of the family members can take place. 

An example of how distant past affects us would be if a family member is ostracized even a few generations ago, another family member might marry a “substitute” for the excluded person and be chronically unhappy in all their relationships as they identify with the missing family member. If a missing person is not brought back into a family system new family members can lose part of their identity, have difficulty making money, or even get violently ill. A new family member may unconsciously recover and express the lost identity of an excluded ancestor. Systemic family law follows the general universal law of energy that cannot be ever destroyed. This way dysfunctional energies keep resurfacing in family systems with every new generation to come till someone shifts them.  

Why Family Constellation?

This workshop in nothing like you have ever experienced before. It is truly profound, enlightening, and very healing experience. This work goes very deep, and far beyond our personal life experiences and childhood trauma that we attempt to address through regular psychotherapy. It also uncovers how the dysfunctional belief systems that run our lives were originated.

Constellation workshops are done for personal, professional, and organizational problems. Family Constellations are an effective way of revealing unconscious connections with the fates of family ancestors.

They provide an opportunity to address on a new and deeper level: anxiety, depression, addictions, unresolved childhood trauma or pain, persistent physical health problems, relationship problems, money problems, business, career, and much, much more. The harmonizing effect of this work will bring balance not only to the participants of the workshop, but to their descendants and ancestors as well.

What Burdens us and stops us from living our Lives fully?

The following kinds of events in families might burden children in later generations, because depending on the way they were dealt with, they might lead to disruptions in the orders of the family system:

    * Miscarriages, abortion, illness, psychotic problems, early death.

    * Disappearance, denial, exclusion or detention of family members.

    * Ill-treatment, crimes, violence, alcohol and drug abuse.

    * Incest, sexual abuse, problems around sexual preferences.

    * Fraud, betrayal, exploitation and suppression.

    * Broken love relationships, divorces and other separations.

    * Life or means of existence have been obtained at the cost of others.

    * The parents who raised the child are not the biological parents.

    * War traumas, crimes of war.

 When you want to set up your family constellation, information about such events in your family will be important.  

A Tree grows from the Roots

The popular and expanding New Age culture promotes spirituality and positive thinking. We all are stuck in our heads, endless mind chatter, and thought processes. We buy into the “sweetness” and seeming easiness of the “spiritual materialism” promoted by the large and rapidly growing personal development industry. It promises to teach us how to “attract” wealth, money, and manifest more of material transient things in our lives.

Here is a very simple yet deep sacred truth about life: nothing can ever “manifest” in our lives if we do not heal the very roots we grow from. We need to honor, heal, and clean if needed, the very roots our family tree feeds of. There could be no lasting or truly deep healing without it.  

The Origins of Family Constellations

The "Family Constellation" process is a trans-generational, phenomenological, therapeutic intervention with roots in family systems therapy, existential-phenomenology, and the ancestor reverence of the South African Zulus. Although the Family Constellation process is sanctioned by Family Therapy Associations in Europe and is being integrated by thousand of licensed practitioners worldwide, the work is still very young in North America.

 Who is Bert Hellinger?  

Bert Hellinger, one of the main developers of constellation work, is considered by many to be Europe 's most innovative   psychotherapist. Described as the ultimate empiricist, Hellinger acknowledges several important influences on his life and work: his parents, whose faith immunized him against accepting Hitler's National Socialism; his 20 years as a priest, particularly as a missionary to the Zulu; and his participation in interracial, ecumenical training in group dynamics led by Anglican clergy.

After leaving the priesthood, he studied psychoanalysis, and eventually developed an interest in Gestalt Therapy and Transactional Analysis. It was in Hellinger's later training in family therapy that he first encountered the family constellations that have become the hallmark of his therapeutic work-an approach to which he has added new levels of meaning and possibility.

Ask for Credentials of your Facilitator

Constellation work needs to be done by a professional trained facilitator that knows how to work with morphogenic fields (family informational fields), uncovers hidden dynamics, and modifies them in ways that foster healing, and helps return the family system and its members to the natural order.

There is no certification board for this kind of work in North America yet, so it is important to ask where your facilitator has received his/her training.

Olga has been trained both in Europe and USA with many brilliant facilitators. She also studied with North American shamans some of whom have successfully assimilated this work. Olga takes more phenomenological and less structural approach that allows her to go deeper into the issue while addressing multiple time frames and many generations in one constellation. Guided by her gift of a medical intuitive Olga is able to get right to the core of the problem.

Olga approaches this work with an open heart. Her gentleness, understanding, and deep respect towards the natural orders and forces that work in family systems makes her an outstanding facilitator.